Your criticism is your cake

“You have no right to be praised if not
can accept criticism. “
                    – Halle Berry, 2005

That’s a terrible sentence passed
Halle Berry, Oscar-winning artist through
James Bond film ‘Die Another Day’ in
in 2004 when a Razzie trophies
Award.

Razzie Award is a recognition that
given to those who judged
bad acting. Label the worst player
Halle was obtained after the play
role in the movie ‘Cat Woman’.

He was the first time
directly come to the provision
award.

No other actor, and Artist
before that could come and
just pass the message through
video.

His speech was interesting: “I
receive this award from the heart.
I regard this as a criticism
for me to perform better in
my movies the next. I still
remember my mother’s message that … ‘You
no right to be praised if you do not
can accept criticism ‘. “

Standing ovation as
of amazement from the audience
so enliven the evening. Yes,
very few people are able to
Halle accept such criticism.

Well, now, what the criticism of
You? Is that a bad accident?
As an unexpected disaster,
or … symbol of self-destruction? Is there
could consider the criticism as he
receive praise?

Criticism has many forms …

Criticism can be advice, chat,
satire, humor, insults until hot.
Naturally, not everyone likes
criticism.

However, it would be fun
if we apply and be perfect,
satisfy all the people and get
praise.

But who can guarantee that
we can secure from criticism? Tokh us
only human with all
limitations. And in fact, in the world
These more people who like
criticize, instead of being criticized.

If you like soccer, it would
commentators are often observed in
issued a statement spiciness.

Yet their intelligence is not necessarily
in proportion to criticize others
the ability if asked
play the ball himself on the field.

Not to mention the experts and observers
political, economic, and social. They
busy-busy commented publicly,
statements as they were the most
true.

But that’s not the problem!

The question now is …
if you get criticism,
the illness than a slap, what
what should you do?

The answer is …

=> Enjoy every criticism as
       our favorite cake!

Could it be? Why not!

We have full authority to
control our feelings.
 
Here are tips for you in the face
criticism:

1. Change Your Paradigm Against Critics

Friend, not a few people who fall
only because of the criticism, though not
all criticism is right and necessary
response. In fact, criticism shows
there are * still * to our care.

Consider companies
large to be delivered
survey to find out his weaknesses.

Imagine if you had to do
the same thing, a lot of money
only to find out shortcomings
You! LoL.

Criticism is an opportunity to
self-correction. Course will
nice to know that the
our lack of direct, rather than
just received the impact, such as
isolated example.

2. Find out point of view of the critics

There is no harm in finding out the details
criticism presented. You can
learn from them and do
correction for yourself. Could be
delivered criticism is true.

If necessary, just look for people who
want to give criticism and advice
to you. You will not Tokh
be low with it.

On the contrary, those opinions could
be opened perception, insight, and
new paradigm that supports the goal
You.

3. Critics do not have met with criticism!

Respond to criticism wisely. You
not need to feel angry or
put it in the liver. Toh
expression is a right of all
guy.

Enjoy whatever they
convey. It would not hurt to
light in mema’afkan someone.
Think of all that for repairs
your profitable future.

Do not you reply to criticism with
criticism. Because this will only
a debate, draining &
mind. There is no point …

4. Accept criticism with a smile. ^ _ ^

This is all we can so that mental practice
can * tough * exams are
more intense in the future.

In short, we are only feasible
praised if it dared to accept the
criticism. Although not easy, refining continues
courage you to enjoy the criticism
like to enjoy your cake.

Remember, praise and appreciation will only be
come when we’ve done
something worthwhile.

So, never tired to hunt
criticism, and respond to every criticism with
grace!

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